Recently it has come to my attention that a lot of the younger women really buy into the line that their children will be loved and they will be respected if they allow someone to adopt.
So, with this in mind, I started searching blogs. I want you mothers to see what is really out there and in the PAP (prospective adoptive parent(s)) minds. With this in mind, this is one blog entry that struck me as sad. The PAP is talking as if the Mother of her children is withholding something that belongs to him...remember, this as you read...this PAP is stating that they are ENTITLED to the babies of this woman....and that GOD has ordained it.
http://mtoddo.wordpress.com/2010/07/23/dead-ends-and-rabbit-trails/
I will find more - I think it is important that mothers understand the realities of signing away their rights. I hope you read it and see that it is not a positive environment for children.
This Blog is Authored by First Mothers and Adoptees to enlighten and teach and hopefully help others to see adoption in a realistic light. This is a new blog dedicated to the First Mothers and Adoptees of the past. We, as a group, are the silent members of the Adoption Triad. Our voices are not often heard and we have nothing to gain or lose in this process.
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You pays your money you get the goods, it's all about entitlement.
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