This Blog is Authored by First Mothers and Adoptees to enlighten and teach and hopefully help others to see adoption in a realistic light. This is a new blog dedicated to the First Mothers and Adoptees of the past. We, as a group, are the silent members of the Adoption Triad. Our voices are not often heard and we have nothing to gain or lose in this process.
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Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Sunday, September 4, 2011
The Declassified Adoptee: Engineered Obselecense: an Email from an Original Mom
The Declassified Adoptee: Engineered Obselecense: an Email from an Original Mom
The blog post above was truly interesting. In it, a mother talks about her real feelings with regard to adoption and finding out the truth about feelings that are portrayed. It talks about how we, the mothers, and all the parents/prospective parents involved are somehow more responsible for the need of the child to protect us.
This need often creates, at least it is my opinion that it creates a sense of anger and frustration within the adoptee over the "need" to be everything to everyone.
Maybe a bit could be learned by the writers words.... please, read on.
The blog post above was truly interesting. In it, a mother talks about her real feelings with regard to adoption and finding out the truth about feelings that are portrayed. It talks about how we, the mothers, and all the parents/prospective parents involved are somehow more responsible for the need of the child to protect us.
This need often creates, at least it is my opinion that it creates a sense of anger and frustration within the adoptee over the "need" to be everything to everyone.
Maybe a bit could be learned by the writers words.... please, read on.
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