"What I Didn't Know 19 Years Ago" - By birthmomtalks

This is one of the most honest statements about what adoption does, is, to the natural mother of an adoptee.  It is a statement, simplistic and real.  Please read:

http://birthmomtalks.blogspot.com/2010/09/what-i-didnt-know-19-years-ago.html

Please, remember.

Adoption Agencies and What Language and Lures Used

I found this lovely blog and follow it for insight.  This particular entry was one I requested to attach here.  It has some valid and insightful information on the actual adoption language used by agencies to do two things.  The first, make adopters happy with their new family and not consider the family that loses and second, to help push a reluctant or hesitant mother into a relinquishment that she may not want to do.  Please, read it carefully.

http://oneoptionnochoice.blogspot.com/2010/08/language-and-lures.html